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THE BEST THING IN LIFE IS…FREEdom

November 22, 2009 by 101gr8luv

They say that once we signed a marital contract, pag nagpasakal na tayu..di na tayo malaya..technically ..ganun na nga..

Curious lng ako..ang kaluluwa at isip ba ng isang tao..isama na natin ang kanyang damdamin..kasama bang natatali sa kontrata ng kasal…iniisp ko nga mabuti baka nga kasama sa bawat kundisyun ng kontrata na yun ang mga bagay na yun…kasama nga ba?…may papel ba na maaring kumontrol sa damdamin ng bawat tao..

napakalawak ng buhay at pag ibig ng bawat tao..sgro kung wala tayung sapat na oras para pag isipan,malamang di na nga matutugunan ng tama..para sa kin wala ng hihigit pa sa anak bilang bunga ng pagmamahalan ng 2 tao,kung moralidad n aspeto lng nmn ang pagbabasehan..hindi ba?may makakapaghiwalay ba ng dugo na naghalo na nasa anak mula sa ngmamahalan..pero..pano kung walang anak…may pagmamahalan bang masasabi yun?..mas bonded nga kaya kung may anak or kontrata …o mas bonded kung nagmamahalan…

o pano nmn kung may anak pero di nmn ngmamahalan..patay kang bata ka!..or kasal nga wala nmng anak?..or worst eh kasal nga..wala nmng anak at hindi pa nagmamahalan…naku kaya ako pag napasok na yung topic sa utak ko…nag you youtube na lang ako..

BASTA AKO…pinapalaya ko na sarili ko..ayoko na pakontrol sa batas ng tao(kasal)..at sa batas ng buhay(anak)…masyado na yatang sineseryoso ng tao ang mga bagay na yan kaya napakarami sa survey ang di masaya sa buhay at namatay na nag sisisi..sana wag naman ako matulad doon..wow naman…enjoy ko n lng mga araw na pwede akong mag enjoy..bahala na bukas….dati kc mahigpit ako sa sarili ko..pero sa huli ako din pala ang talo..natuto na ako…anyway..kung di nyo tanggap eh ayus lang sa kin…anyway di na din ako ngpapakontrol sa sasabihin ng sosyedad…wala nmn nakatulong sa akin ng masaktan ako ng labis…sarili ko lng..di bale…patas naman ako lumaban,,ngpapartida pa nga ako…eh kung me masasagasaan tlga…remedyo na lng cgro..danyos ba!!eh kc ganun tlga buhay..

kc nga..the best thing in life is free..freedom…dapat lng…

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The End Of My Life

June 26, 2009 by 101gr8luv

My Life is ending

Life that is very Dark

Good Morning is still far,

I can see no glimpse of sunshine

Hope is nearly gone

Strength is no here to carry on

How dark is my life

Courage is all in the mind

No one can here me

Drowning in shallow water

Maybe this is the end of the fight

I lift my life to God

Embraces me with caring arms

Warmth me with his smile

Wipe my tears with love hands..

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NO REGRETS!

May 20, 2009 by 101gr8luv

I always state…that I dont regret everything tht accross my life..oo..Dapat nmn  ganun!!..kc wala dapat ipagsisi dhil yun ang iniisip ko n pinaka best na gawin..wla nmn pumilit sa kin…well..sgro instinct!..impluse!..careless! ..o ano bang itatawag dun..eh okey lang..basta wala akong pakialam..hahaha!okey lang yun..

Basta for once, nakagawa nmn ako ng “Mistake” na akala ko di ko gagawin sa buong buhay ko..ayus di ba!!lumuwag ang mundo ko at dagdag experience..well atleast bago man lang ako pumanaw…lumalawak ang pananaw ko sa buhay…

Akala ko nga astigin  ako..akala ko lng pala yun…sgro nga nagbago na si Abbi sa maraming aspeto ng Pakatao…maraming nagsasabi..in physical aspect madalas napapansin,medyo naging daring at palaayus ako ng mag 30 na ako..kc nga di pwede kampante,,tumatanda na eh..syempre naghahabol sa ako na bumata..hahaha..di nman sa ganon!..sure…kya ganun ako..wla na akong ibang choice kundi atupagin sarili ko since wla na akong ibang magawa..I feel good for myself..inapi na nga ako eh..so alagaan nmn sarili ko…naaatupag ko na ang mga misyun ko sa kapwa,sa pamilya,kaibigan,mga naging ka relasyun in the past at sa naging asawa  ko…….,DI NAMAN MAHALAGA kung HIGH PERFORMANCE RATING AKO..pero sa aking sarili mukhang mabibigo si Abbi…kc nadiscover ko..Napakaduwag ko in many ways!!!huh..baka magtaas kau ng kilay mga ka friendster..kakatwa!ang taray queen..siga siga ako mula nung bata pa ako d2 sa lugar namin at palaban kht sa mga lalaki..muntik pa ako makapatay..di pwedeng sigawan o murahin…NAPAKADUWAG…oo pag mahal ko, suko ako agad!

Totoo naman..napatunayan ko lately..duwag pala ako mabigo..duwag ako masaktan…at napakalaki kong duwag sa katotohanan…Parang di ako!!after all my defeats..naging duwag na ako..kasi……….ayaw ko na maranasan yung mga gabi at araw ng paghiling ng kamatayan ko..at pagtatanung  kung bakit nangyari sa kin ito..ayoko na bumalik sa ganun sitwasyun na almusal,tanhalian at hapunan ang pagtulala at pagluha..pagtulog lang ang tanging paraan para maramdaman ang sakit ng dibdib o ang di maisip na nasira na ang aking mga panagarap at mga hangarin sa buhay…

Ayoko masaktan,,hanggang dyan lng kayo..please try to understand..pagod pa ako lumaban..ayoko muna masaktan..malungkot na masakit ang kambal ng pag ibig..na di ko kayang tayuan..sa ngayon…napadami kong reserba pagsuyo sa king pag ibig,,na lagi nasasayang..ngunit sino ba ang tamang tao?walang makapag sabi..ilang beses na ba yung gus2 ko na ibigay sa taong naramdaman ko na dapat pagbigyan pero di ko makaya dahil duwag ako..pag may napansin ako-totoo man o hinala…naaalarma na ako…sensya na kau..sobra lng kc ang trauma ko,ako na yata ang pinaka best para ikwento ang buhay ko..dhil madalas kalahati lng ang nalaman nyo…ang isang kalahati ay itinago ko lahat sa aking sarili na napakabigat dalhin…masyadong malupit para ikwento pa..na re refresh lng..tama na yung nasa memory ko..hehehe parang USB flash drive

MAgmamahal ako,oo bakit hindi!mapagmahal kaya ako at once na inibig kita..i’ll do my best para ipakita yun…nakakasakal daw madalas ang tipo ng pag ibig ko..ugali nga ng mga Taurean..un lng nmn eh…nasosobrahan..pinipigil ko naman…hehehe..excite masyado…pero maliban dun..wala masasabi sa kin ang ka relasyun..kc nga extreme..alam nyo nmn bunso at nag iisa babae..ng iisa lagi sa kwarto..pag may napalapit sa loob ko gus2 ko lagi ko kasama at kausap…loyal,faithful,sensual,thoughtful,protector…basta pag ginusto ko..sasagasaan ko lahat…pero bakit…maselan na ako ngaun…kaht nararadamn ko na mahal ko na sya…saka ako bibitiw..may makita lang akong sintomas o sign na masasaktan ako…takbo na agad palayo…madalas inaaway ko na sarili ko..pero konti lang..syempre inuunawa ko sarili ko habang unti unti ko tinuturuan…kami na lang ng sarili ko magkakampi…kc nga..duwag…Pano na kaya??

MALI PA ANG SINASABI KONG NO REGRET at all..nakilala ko sarili lately..meron pala akong pinagsisisihan….

ANG ARAW NA JANUARY 20,2001…yun pala ang araw ng aking Bangungot!!..o pagtulog sa kawalaan..ang araw ng aking kasal…

May gigising pa ba sa aking matagal na pagtulog?matagal na akong nagiintay,naiinip na ako…parang gus2 ko ng tuluyan matulog na di na gigisng kahit kailan..ayaw ko pa sumuko..kahit pano gising pa diwa ko..iniintay ko ang aakay sa akin para bumangon at gisingin ang pag asa na magiging buo pa ang aking pagkatao…di ko alam kung sino sya..dumating na ba sya o nakaalis na sya o wala pa tlga…di ko alam..basta kung nandyan sya at matyagang naghintay na ako ay gumising.. ang unang masisilayan..ang kanyang ngiti..for sure..habang buhay na ako sa kanya..dahil sya ang bumuhay sa akin…

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Lord

February 17, 2009 by 101gr8luv

let me live today

live to be happy

show me my faults

learn from it

let me feel no pain

take things as it is

accept my fate

look forward

my eyes in all dimensions

positive things to see

receive your graces

blessings ahead for me

my lord,

give me strength

face life’s cruelty

dry the tears in sadness

smile on my grievances

Lord,

how helpless i am

sand when sorrow may kill me

i lift my ALL to you

show me my destiny

delight my wisdom

intensify my desire to

move on…

in your loving name,

my lord and saviour

jesus

You love me as me,without question

thank u

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the lord will lead me to my destiny..

February 11, 2009 by 101gr8luv

Yes….

It has been the half of my entire life. I know  my biography is as colorful as a butterfly, who can tell what an ugly cocoon will be by metamorphosis. Since i went through almost every trial that human being may face in his life time; I may say that I did it! though I am severely wounded. I’m standing  still though wounded and very tired!!! yes I am!

I don’t have bad habit, I drink liquor once in a while, I smoke 1 cigarette stick when I’m intense, I do have lots of friends gained from my business type but not as barkadas who’ll influence negatively. People see a hidden rockstar inside of me when i sing, that’s the real me.

Some says that I am too hard to myself from being happy,too tight to be express myself, well, I haven’t really thought about it, maybe that’s one of my weak spot. I’m very careless when it comes to my emotions, that’s why I work on it in a process. I hope someday, I may be able to do it, finally.

It’s hard to believe when you live your life with lies…when every  word&thing they said and done were all bunch of deception. False. Honesty never exist!!!..reasons are still in question but the life is ruined already.

I know that I am still living in the past and it has been years that I’m working on it, I hope it wouldn’t take a lifetime. I always pray to god for a help and guidance so that I see the path I should take.

Sometimes I say that my love was wasted, it’s very precious I may say, I ‘m confident it’s true and pure because when I love I give everything even myself what ever I have and whatever I’ll be.It’s priceless! Maybe I haven’t meet the right one yet, who will change my life effortlessly, help me see the meaning of my being. The person who is heaven sent to dry my tears and who is happy staying with me. He is the man who will stay as my hero, my admirer, protector, lover and my best friend. He who deserves my love, attention, respect and purpose.

I know someone out there is for me. Let the lord lead me to my true destiny.

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TAURUS

February 9, 2009 by 101gr8luv

The meaning of sign TAURUS

The second sign of the zodiac

Your element: earth
Your ruling planet : Venus
The tarot card corresponding to your sign : the emperor
Your lucky color : green
Your stone : emerald

Your earth, the element of your sign, is an earth that sows seed. This is an agrarian soil of nature where gain is realized, felt, and experienced sensually. It is this soil that you impregnate with everything that is to be a Taurus. You love nature where you find an exaultation of the senses. Your well-developed senses love the perfume of flowers. You have a natural ability to communicate with animals. You love to experience, first hand, all that nature has to offer.

Your earthy nature makes for a very sensual, physical, carnal being. No platonic lovers for you! However, you need lots of stability. You run the risk of experiencing great pain if this stability does not exist or is in question. You take your time before making any decisions and you rarely change your mind. You work with tenacity and patience, but you are often not rewarded as much as you deserve to be. The fact is that, contrary to the other signs, you don’t know how to put yourself first.

Your qualities are not always recognized at face value. In love, for example, you give a great deal of yourself, but others just seem to take this for granted and do not appreciate your efforts. During physical activities it is the same. You always accomplish everything you do, but you do it discreetly, so that you are not rewarded the responsibility or success that you should have.

During your relationships, friendship or love, you are completly faithful. If you give your affection and your commitment, if is for ever. You give a great deal of youself and you are very disappointed at any kind of deception, and completely disarmed before mistakes and failures.

Venus brings you much sensuality and charm. You have a magnetism that endowes you with a gift for Love. However, you are not frivolous. Just the opposite! Your need for stability and security makes you prefer longlasting relationships.

Your faults often stem from your character. Your steadfastness may become inactivity. You have trouble adapting to new situations, crossing into unchartered waters, making quick decisions. Having several things on the go at once makes you nervous.

Your connection with other signs:

You have more chance of getting along with other steadfast signs. For example, Aries, Virgo and other Tauruses. You should however be on guard against anyone with air and water signs, particularly Geminis and Scorpios, who do attract you.

This brief but frank analysis will help you make appropriate decisions in your life. Study it well so that you can take full advantage and maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses.

Those who succeed, no matter the situation, are those who consciously or unconsciously take maximum advantage of their trump cards, their successes, their strengths, and know when to exert self-control in moments of weakness.

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Of Love and Lies

November 9, 2008 by 101gr8luv

Ever wonder if an amour is fudging the facts? Here, we reveal the truth about dating and deception.

True lie #1: The most serious lies are told by (and to) the people we care about most
When we looked at the people who were involved in the most serious lies in people’s lives, either as the liars or as the targets of the lies, we found something important: The people we care about the most — such as close friends, romantic partners, spouses, and parents — were most likely to be involved in those events.

True lie #2: When it comes to little lies, though, our romantic partners see more of our true selves
Fellow researcher Debby Kashy and I asked 147 people to keep diaries, every day for a week, of all the lies they told and all the people they lied to. Not surprisingly, the vast majority of the lies were little lies. For example, people lied to make themselves look better than they really were, to avoid embarrassment or disagreements, or to get out of doing some small task that they did not feel like doing. In general, though, people told fewer of these little lies to the people they cared about the most. That usually meant romantic partners, but also included close friends and family members.

True lie #3: The more attractive you are, the more people will lie to you
Social psychologists Wade Rowatt, Michael Cunningham, and Perri Druen showed people photos of possible dates who were either considered to be very attractive or rather unattractive. Along with each picture was info about the person’s beliefs and preferences. When subjects were asked who they thought they’d get along with on a date, subjects lied most about their own beliefs and characteristics when faced with the prospect of an attractive date—if the hottie in photo #1 loved skiing, for example, subjects were prone to say, “I love skiing, too!” even if they’d barely hit the bunny slopes.

True lie #4: Romantic partners are worse than strangers at detecting each other’s fibs
Imagine that your partner is gazing at someone behind you, someone you can’t see, and you ask your partner, “Do you think that person you’re looking at is attractive?” Eric Anderson created a situation just like that for his dissertation. Sometimes the partners who were asked that question lied, and sometimes they told the truth. Turns out, people could distinguish their romantic partner’s lies from their truths only 52 percent of the time (when they would have gotten 50 percent right just by chance). Not a very impressive level of accuracy. Complete strangers, on the other hand, had a 58 percent accuracy rate in detecting that person’s fibs.

True lie #5: When asked to ’fess up to their most serious lie, affairs are by far the most common
No big surprise there! Although, let’s not discount the other doozies. Many of the lies were told to hide bad behaviors, such as squandering in the stock market the money that was supposed to go toward a down payment on a couple’s first home. Some people hide facts about their past that they find shameful, or they conceal information (such as a grim health diagnosis) that would be upsetting for the other person to hear. Some claim accomplishments (such as athletic prowess) or connections (with important people) that are purely fanciful. But by far the most common cover-up involved sleeping around behind someone’s back.

True lie #6: If you admit to a lie, it might not save a relationship
Ever heard someone say “If only he/she had told me the truth, I could have forgiven him/her”? Not so. When communication professors Steven McCornack and Timothy Levine asked 190 people to describe instances in which a partner had lied to them, they found that whether the relationship survived depended more on what was lied about than the fact that the person had lied, period. For example, the fact that a romantic partner had an affair was more likely to doom a relationship than the fact that the partner lied about the affair. So in other words, confessing to a big fib like an affair won’t necessarily absolve you.

True lie #7: Think liars don’t care about other people? Often, just the opposite is the case
One of our stereotypes about liars is that they’re cold, scheming, manipulative, and don’t really care about people. Some liars really are that way. But far more people lie because they do care. Liars are frequently tempted to fib when they think that other people would not like them just the way they are. So they lie and pretend to be different so that other people will like, respect, or care about them more.

True lie #8: “I did it for you” —that’s what people claim when they tell lies to their romantic partners
In a study of lying between exes, social psychologists Mary Kaplar and Anne Gordon asked people to describe a time when they lied to their romantic partner, and a time when their romantic partner lied to them. Liars said they had their partner’s best interests in mind when they lied. For example, they said they were trying to avoid upsetting their partner or hurting their partner’s feelings. The partners who were the targets of lies, however, didn’t feel the same way.

True lie #9: Even after lying to their romantic partners, liars claim that they are not bad people
Kaplar and Gordon found that people who lie to their romantic partners do typically feel guilty about their lies. But they do not think that they are bad or even dishonest people. Instead, they think of themselves as basically honest people who got caught in a bad situation.

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25 Fascinating Love Facts

November 9, 2008 by 101gr8luv

25 Fascinating Love Facts


Love is mysterious, fascinating, and when you find it with the
right person, there’s nothing better. Here are 25 surprising love facts to
puzzle over and embrace.

Love is a many-splendored thing … and a very surprising thing, too. As if you
needed proof of that, here are 25 funny little facts about love. Study them,
scratch your head over them, and share them with someone you fancy.

1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those
who don’t.

2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right
when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the
right!)

3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78
percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved
their legs or underarms.

4. Feminist women are more likely than other
females to be in a romantic relationship.

5. Two-thirds of people report
that they fall in love with someone they’ve known for some time vs. someone that
they just met.

6. There’s a reason why office romances occur: The single
biggest predictor of love is proximity.

7. Falling in love can induce a
calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for
about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover’s
memory.

8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear.
You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and
increased heart rate.

9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of
a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain
involving cravings.

10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific
are married at birth.

11. The “Love Detector” service from Korean cell
phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to
see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an
analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the
amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other
speaker.

12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they
were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.

13.
Couples’ personalities converge over time to make partners more and more
similar.

14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and
comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

15. The
tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of
Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of
Burgundy.

16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never
sign “love” to a card unless they are ready for commitment.

17. People
who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low
as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that’s why
it’s so easy to feel obsessed when you’re smitten.

18. Philadelphia
International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love
connection, according to an online survey.

19. According to mathematical
theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that
provides the best chance that you’ll make a love match.

20. A man’s
beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.

21. Every Valentine’s Day,
Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare’s play Romeo and Juliet took
place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.

21. When we
get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more,
says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love.
The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be
active.

22. People telling the story of how they fell in love
overwhelmingly believe the process is out of their control.

23.
Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.

24. One in five
long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with
others.

25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it:
Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the
commitment, the greater the happiness!


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How to Reach Soul-Mate Status With Any Man

November 2, 2008 by 101gr8luv

How to Reach Soul-Mate Status With Any Man

Finally, those brainiacs in the scientific world have hit on something really earth-shattering (and we don’t mean global warming). We’re talking about personality typing. “Almost every man falls into one of four categories,” says Paul Dobransky, MD, author of “The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love.” Reasons for the differences range from hormones to psychology, and knowing the types gives insight into a guy’s dating MO.
We had Dr. Dobransky, founder of kwml.com, and anthropologist Helen Fisher, PhD, chief scientific adviser for a new online dating site, break down each type. Use this info to analyze guys, have more fun with yours, and even reach soul-mate status.

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THE ROCK

SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Organized groups (like a running club), gadgets, nonfiction books
When he’s stressed, he analyzes the situation and makes lists and plans.
He lights up if you say: “I could really use your advice on something.
HE’S RIGHT FOR YOU IF…
You want your boyfriend to be a supportive, steadfast partner who shares your sensible approach to life and is smart enough to get your sometimes quirky side without judging.
You’re turned on by witty, intelligent conversation and gifts that show the affection he’s not so great at verbalizing.
You deal with problems by talking about them rationally. This guy’s always game for reasoned debates, but drama queens will lose big — emotional outbursts freak him out.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: He feels most energized when he’s engaging his mind, so try watching a documentary, seeing an interesting exhibit, or taking a class, such as sushi making.
Relationship requirements: This dedicated dude gets totally absorbed in his interests. If you don’t even ask about them (”How was Shark Week?”), he’ll feel like you don’t get him. He’s also tuned in to etiquette, so gaffes (like bailing on plans) turn him off.
What he seeks in a soul mate: To really trust you, he has to know that you respect his cerebral nature. Help coax out his playful side with plans he’d never make on his own and he’ll see you as the total package.

THE DOER

SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Sports (playing and watching), barbecuing, building things
When he’s stressed, he dives in and deals with the cause, whether it means extra hours at work or a showdown.
He lights up if you say: “Is there anything you can’t make happen?”
HE’S RIGHT FOR YOU IF…
You want your boyfriend to be the classic male archetype — a protective, take-charge dude who doesn’t yap about his feelings but lets his guard down when alone with you.
You’re turned on by grand gestures, like spontaneous PDAs, and manly deeds, like changing your car’s oil.
You deal with problems directly without any passive-aggressive BS. He’s quick to confront conflict. If you are too, your issues will disappear once you hash them out.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: His heart beats faster (figuratively and literally) when he’s active, so suggest a hike in the woods or a boxing class followed by drinks.
Relationship requirements: This on-the-go guy needs solo time to recharge and will feel smothered if you are clingy. You’ll need a thick skin, because he doesn’t sugarcoat things…ever.
What he seeks in a soul mate: His he-man side needs you to appreciate his efforts to lead. But under his strong, silent exterior, he’s a superloyal softie. He feels complete when you can talk about the feelings that he internalizes.

THE THRILL CHASER

SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Outdoor activities (like camping and skiing), foreign travel, parties and crowds
When he’s stressed, he distracts himself with something amusing, like watching the game or organizing a social outing.
He lights up if you say: “Oh, you have a fascinating story about that — c’mon, tell everyone.”
HE’S RIGHT FOR YOU IF…
You want your boyfriend to be a whirlwind of personality who can liven things up, make you laugh, get you out of your head, and keep you guessing…in a good way.
You’re turned on by unpredictable, exciting plans.
You deal with problems in a casual, nonconfrontational way. Mr. Conflict Avoidance hates when you’re unhappy with him and will deflect attention unless you tackle the issue.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: This class clown loves being around new people — think karaoke night or a charity casino event. He’s also thrilled by new accomplishments, like scaling a rock wall at the gym.
Relationship requirements: He needs a laissez-faire chick who won’t try to rein in his inner wild child. He is willing to share the spotlight, just not all of it.
What he seeks in a soul mate: The ultimate people person bonds best with an ever-evolving woman who can match his lust for new experiences. He craves independence yet still needs to know he’s important to you, so being secure enough to show you care is a must.

THE SWEETHEART

SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Music, cooking dinner for friends, reading literature
When he’s stressed, he talks about it with confidants until he finds a solution.
He lights up if you say: “I never would have noticed that. You’re so observant!”
HE’S RIGHT FOR YOU IF…
You want your boyfriend to be a guy who truly listens, understands your girlie side, and can talk about feelings.
You’re turned on by sweet, movie-worthy romance, like slow kisses and crazy-great compliments.
You deal with problems by honestly addressing them and taking emotions into consideration. He’s a philosopher at heart, and even if you two don’t agree in the end, you’ll learn tons about each other during your in-depth discussions.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: Atmosphere matters to this sensualist, so find a spot with a romantic vibe (try a botanical garden or outdoor jazz concert) for the real highlight: your ever-intensifying one-on-one bond.
Relationship requirements: This nurturer tries to know everyone he meets on a deeper level, which can be rough if you’re the jealous type. Also, he’s so into connecting that he’ll feel dissed if you don’t share your problems.
What he seeks in a soul mate: This idealist falls when he knows you value communication too. Because he tends to ruminate, you’ll enhance his life by being decisive yourself.

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How To Treat Acne

October 12, 2008 by 101gr8luv

No matter if you are a teenager or an adult, acne is an embarrassing
thing to deal with. Even if you are the only one that notices the small
marks, you may still suffer from lowered self esteem, and major amounts
of self-consciousness whenever you go into public. Even if you don’t
really mind what others think about you, you may want to get rid of the
acne for professional reasons, or to increase your sex appeal to your
significant other. No matter what your reason is for wanting the acne
off of your face, you should look into some of the most popular acne
treatments in order to get rid of it.

The most common form of acne treatment is a cream.
Almost every major cosmetics company offers their own kind of cream
that you rub on your face once, twice, or three times a day. These
typically have good effects on your skin, but whether they work or not
is entirely unique to your body and your acne. Try out a few different
brands and see if you have good luck with any of them. If you have
tried out several kinds of cream and have had no decrease in acne, then
you should move on to other methods of treatment. It is no use sticking
with something that obviously isn’t working.

If
you are looking to take a step up and find something a little more
complicated, you can get “suites” of treatments from some cosmetic
companies. The process is different with every company. For example,
you might have to spray your face with a misty product, swab it down
with a special cloth, then rub lotion into your face and rinse it all
off. These are generally more expensive than regular simpler lotions,
and it is hard to say whether they are more effective. You will have to
do some comparisons on your own and decide whether you think it is
worth the extra money. Never spend too much on treatment – most of the
time it simply isn’t worth it.

Another more
radical form of treatment is to take acne shots. These shots are
usually designed to dry out the skin around the area that they are
injected into. Acne will disappear almost immediately, but you will
have to cope with something that is arguably worse: dry skin. For the
next few months after you get shots, skin all over your entire body
will be dry, and possibly peeling. As long as you religiously apply
lotion to keep your body moisturized, this won’t be too bad of an
experience. It is definitely the most efficient way to get rid of acne.

Hopefully
at least one of these treatments sounds attractive. If you use all of
them and none of them work, then you could be dealing with something
much more ominous than just simply acne. But the chances are that by
using these, you will be able to completely rid yourself of the curse
of acne, and become much more clean and pleasant looking. Just progress
with caution and choose your treatment wisely. Treatments only work if
you can stick with them, so choose something that fits the level of
commitment that you are willing to make towards getting rid of your
acne.

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